Prospective female wants meet me for the first time among her friends in a bar

[King of Hokies]

I don't like going to meet someone and having their friends around like judgement panel. Am I right? or am I some freak that should be stoned from the village like Conner McCloud?

First of all, I wouldn't do anything for a prospective female. Make sure she is a real female first.

Secondly, if you've got the goods by all means go get evaluated. If you can impress the friends, then you're already at +3 status. Plus, if things don't go well with her, you can move along to her friends.